Tuesday, October 5, 2010

When 2 person are angry at each other, they will not listen even when they negotiate. All they usually do is to look/argue at each other mistake but only till they cool down, they will then try to listen & think.
It's easy for a third party to say chill/ forgive and forget, but it takes alot more for the involved people to accept because words can't be taken back.
As for me, the last time it happened was nearly a year ago, till now I still don't regard them as friends. Good for me, I hardly meet to see them but if i do i pretend i didnt. The sight of them still irks me. They don't share the similar passion as me.

But what if, they do and i have to see them often? I wonder how will things become?
Friends have limitation, we can't possibly depend on them too much and we can't force too much on them.
It goes back to self reflection, don't be too mad to listen to your own mistakes.
Don't push the others to the brink as well, give it a chance.

yaaaa. guess its still from the third party point of view so this post is still crappy.
I know it v well that its easier to b said than done and I dont really give in in such matter.
I even ruined numerous friendships because I'm too egoistic to talk things out.
It's not easy, never easy to end.
Why do troubles like this sparks so easily yet so difficult to be put down.
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