Realisation

Today I've learnt one should never live under other's wings.
I've also see the true side of human and know there can never be fairness.
A child should never depend on his/her parents, a wife cannot solely depend on her husband.
A poor sibling probably not worth more than peanuts, no matter how independent he/she is.
At least for now I understand, being financially dependent can earn you some respect.
However I am now very uncertain if kinship worth more than hard cold cash because it's somehow revealed to me, it does.